Dean Hughes

“Sometimes when you're looking for an answer, you search everywhere else before you take a look at what's right in front of you.”

“I didn't learn anything. Mostly, I got myself confused.""Kathy, that's what learning is all about. You have to know the right questions before you can get the right answers.”

“The war must have broken God's heart, Anna. How could he stand to watch what we did to each other?”

“I think he'll accept the gospel in the next life," Afton said.Bobbi was stunned by the response."Afton, what do you mean?" she said. "That is the gospel.”

“War is the greatest evil Satan has invented to corrupt our hearts and souls. We should honor our soldiers, but we should never honor war.”

“I'd rather do something than read about it.""That's fine, but if you do it, and then can't think what it means, it's never much of a memory. Life has more to so with memories of the past and longings for the future than it ever does with *right now*.”

“What a storyteller does is *see* more than most of us. We say he's making up his stories, but he—or better yet, *she*—watches more carefully, and then tells us what we would have seen ourselves if we'd just stopped to look.”

“If we believe in them, love them and trust them, they see who they are through our eyes.”

“This boy turkied my Thanksgiving, but I won't let him Grinch my Christmas. -Dean Hughes (Midway to Heaven)”

“Before we have children, we think most of the parents sitting in sacrament meeting ought to “do something about their kids.” Once we have kids, we think everyone ought to be a lot more understanding about what we’re trying to survive during the meeting. And once our kids are grown, we think, “I never let my kids get away with that.” We really all need to chill out.”

“What would Kathy say if she knew I let the whole crew eat those Oreos when they never did eat their carrot sticks (which I had so firmly required as prerequisite)? All three of my kids were probably heading for disease (not enough veggies) and jail (not enough discipline).”