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Devan Sipher

Born in LA.

I always thought that would make a good title for my autobiography. Not that I plan on writing one.

I grew up mostly in Southfield, Michigan, which sounds misleadingly bucolic for a suburb of Detroit with more than 27 million square feet of office space.

For ten years, I was a writer of the Vows column at The New York Times, and my first novel, The Wedding Beat, was loosely based on my experience at the Times as a single guy writing about weddings.

You can read some of my articles at the Times here.


“Love means never having to shave your back.”
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“If you let someone sweep you off your feet, you better be prepared to land on your ass.”
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“There should be exit interviews for dating. Just a brief evaluation of the highlights and challenges of the relationship, and maybe a few questions like “So what exactly was it that motivated you to dump me?”
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“Everything in life is a choice, and I was choosing to be happy.”
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