"Screwing The Rules: The No-Game Guide to Love" (Running Press), is my newest book!
I am an International Dating Coach, Flirting and Femininity Expert, 5x Published Author, MTV Made "It Girl" Mentor, and TV Host.
I have been there and done all of it.
I followed the “rules” and got what I thought I wanted, disappointed myself and my family, acted carelessly and recklessly- with myself and others, fell for bad boys who hurt me in an array of ways, failed my expectations, had my heart shredded, been a rigid bitch out of fear of opening up again, analyzed and broke down my breakups as I extracted the lessons, excavated and aired my baggage, endured then learned from countless hours of therapy, got the 3rd degree from myself- my biggest and harshest critic, and experienced experienced experienced to the tune of 2 marriages, 3 engagements, and 9 proposals… and finally something clicked. All I had to do was love me first, learn how to embody my best most authentic self, allow myself to be vulnerable, dedicate the time and put in the effort, and I will be able to attract and keep the right guy for me.
In the process of experiencing and learning, I developed a formula to attract great guys, make them want to commit, and get them to fall in love… quickly, but deeply and truly. Some of my advice is unconventional. It may even be uncomfortable at first. But it works.
If you’re ready for something real, you’ve got to be smart, get raw, and have a strategy- the No-Games Strategy.