Sherry Argov

“Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living—don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.”

“This is a touch game. There are times when you've got to play hurt when you've got to block out the pain.”

“When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.”

“You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face”

“Once you start laughing, you start healing.”

“When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it's the only kind of relationship worth having.”

“Men control the world, but women control the men.”

“If you can't convince 'em, confuse 'em.”

“Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.”

“Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves”

“He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”

“It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.”

“Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact".”

“The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.”

“If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.”

“Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work.”

“When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you dont nag, he deals with the problem.”

“And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.”

“If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.”

“If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point.”

“When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.”

“If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.”

“Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.”

“Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.”

“Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.”

“For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.”

“Because of his hormones, he only has three emotions: crabby, hungry, horny.”

“UncondiTional love is a beauTiful Thing. JusT be sure Togive iT after your conditions have been meT :P”

“The most attractive quality of all is dignity.”

“Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.”

“You always want what you cant have”

“The bitch is an empowered woman who derives tremendous strength from the ability to be an independent thinker, particularly in a world that still teaches women how to be self-abnegating. This woman doesn't live someone else's standards, only her own.”

“Success in love isn't about looks, it's about attitude.”

“It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.”

“A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone.”

“If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem. Why? You always come before they do, that's why.”

“When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.”

“The bitch does not stop moving to her own rhythm. This, in and of itself, prevents her from becoming off-balance like a nice girl who abandons her routine.”

“Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.”

“That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.”

“Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can't take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you'll still have a skunk on your hands.”

“Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want.”

“Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turnd on by a woman who cares about her own pleasures as well.”

“Men are intrigued by anything they do not completly control.”

“you can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he does't respect your opinion,he won't respect you.”

“When you are happy, you are sexy”

“When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that’s when he won’t want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy.”

“With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.”

“Relationship Principle 11It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.”

“Relationship Principle 10You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn't respect your opinion, he won't respect you.”