38 Quotes About Strangers

In a world brimming with familiar faces and cherished connections, the encounter with a stranger can be a remarkable event, laced with mystery and possibility. Whether it's a fleeting moment on a bustling street or a profound interaction that leaves an indelible mark, strangers have the power to shape our narratives in unexpected ways. Quotes about strangers capture the essence of these encounters, offering wisdom and insight into the dynamics of human connection and the beauty of serendipity. In this collection of 38 thought-provoking quotes, you'll find reflections on the transformative potential of meeting someone new, the lessons taught by those who enter our lives even briefly, and the universal experience of being strangers in a diverse and ever-changing world.

1. “There are too many of us, he thought. There are billions of us and that's too many. Nobody knows anyone. Strangers come and violate you. Strangers come and cut your heart out. Strangers come and take your blood. Good God, who were those men? I never saw them before in my life!” - Ray Bradbury

2. “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.” - Anonymous

3. “Spend twenty years there and you ask yourself how there can still be strangers with so many familiar faces ... it's probably that cities generate strangers continuously ...” - Frederik Peeters

4. “Strangers take a long time to become acquainted, particularly when they are from the same family.” - M.E. Kerr

5. “Love enables mutual trust among strangers.” - Toba Beta

6. “An overwhelming curiosity makes me ask myself what their lives might be like. I want to know what they do, where they're from, their names, what they're thinking about at that moment, what they regret, what they hope for, their past loves, their current dreams ... and if they happen to be women (especially the young ones) then the urge becomes intense.How quickly would you want to see her naked, admit it, and naked through to her heart. How you try to learn where she comes from, where she's going, why she's here and not elsewhere!While letting your eyes wander all over her, you imagine love affairs for her, you ascribe her deep feelings. You think of the bedroom she must have, and a thousand things besides ... right down to the battered slippers into which she must slip her feet when she gets out of bed.” - Gustave Flaubert

7. “On the late afternoon streets, everyone hurries along, going about their own business.Who is the person walking in front of you on the rain-drenched sidewalk?He is covered with an umbrella, and all you can see is a dark coat and the shoes striking the puddles.And yet this person is the hero of his own life story.He is the love of someone’s life.And what he can do may change the world.Imagine being him for a moment.And then continue on your own way.” - Vera Nazarian

8. “In this world of memories, there's no need for strangers.-Kenshin to Kaoru” - Watsuki Nobuhiro

9. “. . . she gave him one of those broad smiles she reserved for strangers, as if she were aware of being able to pass, in their eyes, for an ordinary woman.” - Nicole Krauss

10. “. . .sometimes one feels freer speaking to a stranger than to people one knows. Why is that?"“Probably because a stranger sees us the way we are, not as he wishes to think we are.” - Carlos Ruiz Zafon

11. “Perhaps love is a minor madness. And as with madness, it's unendurable alone. The one person who can relieve us is of course the sole person we cannot go to: the one we love. So instead we seek out allies, even among strangers and wives, fellow patients who, if they can't touch the edge of our particular sorrow, have felt something that cuts nearly as deep.” - Andrew Sean Greer

12. “I´m a stranger in a strange land.” - Carson McCullers

13. “What chance combination of shadow and sound and his own thoughts had created it?” - Patricia Highsmith

14. “But there were too many points at which the other self could invade the self he wanted to preserve, and there were too many forms of invasion: certain words, sounds, lights, actions his hands or feet performed, and if he did nothing at all, heard and saw nothing, the shouting of some triumphant inner voice that shocked him and cowed him.” - Patricia Highsmith

15. “Smile at strangers and you just might change a life.” - Steve Maraboli

16. “My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet. She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia.” - Dame Edna Everage

17. “Have more humility. Remember you don't know the limits of your own abilities. Successful or not, if you keep pushing beyond yourself, you will enrich your own life – and maybe even please a few strangers.” - A.L. Kennedy

18. “Nothing is stranger or more ticklish than a relationship between people who know each other only by sight, who meet and observe each other daily - no hourly - and are nevertheless compelled to keep up the pose of an indifferent stranger, neither greeting nor addressing each other, whether out of etiquette or their own whim.” - Thomas Mann

19. “The house seemed so different at night. Everything was in its correct place, of course, but somehow the furniture seemed more angular and the pictures on the wall more one-dimensional. She remembered somebody saying that at night we are all strangers, even to ourselves, and this struck her as being true.” - Alexander McCall Smith

20. “The city's full of people who you just see around.” - Terry Pratchett

21. “Sometimes those who give the most are the ones with the least to spare.” - Mike McIntyre

22. “For a split second they stared at each other. A fleeting, lasting moment. One person noticing another person out of a whole crowd of strangers.” - Alexandra Potter

23. “There's an opposite to déjà vu. They call it jamais vu. It's when you meet the same people or visit places, again and again, but each time is the first. Everybody is always a stranger. Nothing is ever familiar.” - Chuck Palahniuk

24. “The things I've bought from strangers in the dark would curl your hair.” - David Sedaris

25. “Most travel, and certainly the rewarding kind, involves depending on the kindness of strangers, putting yourself into the hands of people you don't know and trusting them with your life.” - Paul Theroux

26. “Each day we stood almost shoulder to shoulder, occupying the same space, breathing the same air, but we remained strangers.” - M.A. Stacie

27. “we walk the plank with strangers.” - Sylvia Plath

28. “That's the thing about flying: You could talk to someone for hours and never even know his name, share your deepest secrets and then never see them again.” - Jennifer E. Smith

29. “Strangers are endearing because you don’t know them yet.” - Dejan Stojanovic

30. “Cameras are a lifesaver for very shy people who have nowhere else to hide. Behind a lens they can disguise the fact that they have nothing to say to strangers.” - Pat Conroy

31. “Poor strangers, they have so much to be afraid of.” - Shirley Jackson

32. “In my experience - and this is a very awkward way to put it, since I don't really know what the word experience means - the strangest people in one's life are the people one has known and loved, still know and will always love. Here, both I and the vocabulary are both in trouble, for strangest does not imply stranger. A stranger is a stranger is a stranger, simply, and you watch the stranger to anticipate his next move. But the people who elicit from you a depth of attention and wonder which we helplessly call love are perpetually making moves which cannot possibly be anticipated. Eventually, you realize that it never occurred to you to anticipate their next move, not only because you couldn't but because you didn't have to: it was not a question of moving on the next move, but simply, of being present. Danger, true, you try to anticipate and you prepare yourself, without knowing it, to stand in the way of death. For the strangest people in the world are those people recognized, beneath one's senses, by one's soul - the people utterly indispensable for one's journey.” - James Baldwin

33. “He was no lover in a worldly sense; the only love he knew was that of divine understanding, of taking a whole life into its depths as if they were his own. From this, the greatest pain, the greatest happiness is born: the hope that we too will one day be understood, strangers will accept our words, our lives, as if they were their own.” - Dezső Kosztolányi

34. “I do not accept reading tips from strangers, especially from indecisive men whose shirt collars are a dramatically different color from the main portion of the garment.” - Joe Queenan

35. “It seems the older we get, the tighter our inner circle becomes. When life has you down, some of those you thought had your back run, others...sometimes strangers surprise you and fill that empty space up. Oh, but life has a great balancing act and when that axle turns and you are right side up again...you will definitely not be looking for any long, lost "friends" because your inner circle is battle-tested to win!” - Sanjo Jendayi

36. “Do you not know that God entrusted you with that money (all above what buys necessities for your families) to feed the hungry, to clothe the naked, to help the stranger, the widow, the fatherless; and, indeed, as far as it will go, to relieve the wants of all mankind? How can you, how dare you, defraud the Lord, by applying it to any other purpose?” - John Wesley

37. “Sympathy from strangers can be ruinous.” - Margaret Atwood

38. “Normally we divide the external world into that which we consider to be good or valuable, bad or worthless, or neither. Most of the time these discriminations are incorrect or have little meaning. For example, our habitual way of categorizing people as friends, enemies, and strangers depending on how they make us feel is both incorrect and a great obstacle to developing impartial love for all living beings. Rather than holding so tightly to our discriminations of the external world, it would be much more beneficial if we learned to discriminate between valuable and worthless states of mind.” - Geshe Kelsang Gyatso