40 Inspiring Self-Help Quotes

August 14, 2025
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40 Inspiring Self-Help Quotes

Finding motivation and guidance in everyday life can often come from a few powerful words. Whether you're seeking encouragement, clarity, or a fresh perspective, self-help quotes have a unique way of inspiring change and growth. Explore this curated collection of the top 40 inspiring self-help quotes designed to uplift your spirit and fuel your journey toward personal success.

1. “You cannot solve a problem in the same frequency in which it was created.” - Lynn Grabhorn

2. “Beauty as we feel it is something indescribable; what it is or what it means can never be said.” - George Santayana

3. “you don't have to worry about burning bridges, if you're building your own” - Kerry E. Wagner

4. “Good, capable individuals unconsciously and consciously guard and nurture themselves and their spirits every day in all sorts of choices, large and small. Just as their lives are never static, they are rarely if ever fractured. Their morals and ethics are never cut off from the whole of their evolving beings.” - Donald Van de Mark

5. “To have more peace, as well as more time, start by letting go of the notion that time can be manipulated. Then, let go of the idea that it confines you. Instead, set out to use the time that is there for its true and best purpose – as the space within which you can live your life to the fullest.” - Michelle Passoff

6. “Even if there were only two men left in the world and both of them saints they wouldn't be happy. One them would be bound to try and improve the other. That is the nature of things.” - Frank O'Connor

7. “There is nothing to prove to anyone, just concentrate on your own needs.” - Stephen Richards

8. “AA is a spiritual program and Step 3 is a quintessentially spiritual Step. It is the ultimate anti-self Step. Thus, in a very real sense, we cannot practice the 12 Steps of AA merely as self-help. They are not intended to be. – p. 159” - Ray A

9. “Poverty: a temporary financial low, curable by money.” - Stephen Richards

10. “View life through a wide angle lens attitude and see your horizons broaden.” - Stephen Richards

11. “If you can't quite make it as a high flier then join a trampoline club.” - Stephen Richards

12. “A failure is always in the passenger seat in his or her life.” - Stephen Richards

13. “Winning is great, but if it's not enough then then you'll never have enough!” - Stephen Richards

14. “Certain situations need a Jedi-like approach. One of these is when you are in a strange environment, usually where you feel unsure of yourself. You would be surprised how, if you walk with confidence and meaning, people will see this as a mark of confidence, yet you are perhaps shaking inside but outwardly you have the gait of a confident Jedi Knight.” - Stephen Richards

15. “If you take any step, no matter how small it is, towards achieving your dreams then you will surely find the right path and reach the abundance that lies in store for you.” - Stephen Richards

16. “Only by maintaining positive thoughts, by dispelling doubt and negativity, will you impress your desires upon the universe, making it bend to your will.” - Stephen Richards

17. “If you have ever prayed for something and received what you wanted, you engaged in Cosmic Ordering.” - Stephen Richards

18. “The challenge for you is to decide not what is important, but what is most important and then focus your attention on that.” - Steve Backley

19. “It is one thing to know what should be done, it is another to do it.” - Steve Backley

20. “The sprint is like life ... blink and you miss it.” - Steve Backley

21. “You have to create your self-belief by going to your core to find the probable reasons for the negativity in you, and then demolish them.” - Steve Backley

22. “I ask to be made beautiful like the trees are beautiful, each growing according to a unique plan. Lop off a limb and and the tree will accommodate it's loss, still growing and still beautiful. It is my hope to be able to flourish in a similar fashion, taking on the shape and dimensions that is intended for me.” - Julia Cameron

23. “Happiness is something we reap from the seeds we sow. Plant misery seeds and that us what you reap.” - Stephen Richards

24. “Knowledge is very vital in life`s transformation and transition” - Jaachynma N.E. Agu

25. “Dare to be different. Represent your maker well and you will forever abide in the beautiful embrace of his loving arms.” - Jaachynma N.E. Agu

26. “To fail is nothing, unless you continue to ignore Cosmic Ordering.” - Stephen Richards

27. “If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There's no use being a damn fool about it. - W.C. Fields” - Bethenny Frankel

28. “You are only as beautiful as your last action ...” - Stephen Richards

29. “Principle of Change #1: Discontent + Passion Drive Change” - Brett Blumenthal

30. “My God can do it! My God will do it! My God wants to do it! My God has done it!” - Kathy Degraw

31. “Identify your Radar – it’s your brain functioning optimally; not a vague intuition or cosmic sixth sense.Train your Radar in key areas like: evaluating people, personal safety, healthy relationships, physical and mental well-being, money and credit cards, career choice, how to get organized.Meet the Radar Jammers. They have the power to turn down or turn off our clear thinking Radars.
Some are well known: alcohol and drugs, peer pressure, infatuation, sleep deprivation.
Others are surprising: showing off, fake complexity, anger, unthinking religions, the need for speed, dangerous personality disorders, and even fast food!
Learn reasonable approaches and specific techniques to deal with them all.” - C.B. Brooks

32. “Writing and drawing are very therapeutic, but they are also an excellent manifestation tool. I teach my clients to draw what they want, or to write a story about it to bring the manifestation forward into the present.” - Alice McCall

33. “Perfect does not mean perfect actions in a perfect world, but appropriate actions in an imperfect one.” - R.H. Blyth

34. “Great artistic works are often based on solving several psychological problems simultaneously. In literature this is often accomplished by splitting apart the conflict and assigning each aspect to a different character. Marjie Rynearson, for instance, wrote an award-winning play, Jenny, about the meeting and reconciliation of two women: the mother of a murder victim and the mother of the murderer. Within the dialogue between the two characters she sought to resolve two sets of problems: the rage and grief of the victim's mother, and the horror, guilt, and grief of the murderer's mother. She worked on the play for several years, and only when it was finished did she realize that through it she was struggling to resolve her feelings about the suicide of her best friend. Rynearson had simultaneously been, in effect, both the friend of the victim and the friend of the perpetrator of the killing. The power of the work lay in its simultaneous resolution of conflicting problems.” - Linda Austin

35. “No one gets out of this life alive.So leave a footprint of your choice.You are writing your epitaph.You are writing it now!Life is a process, not a goal.Live it now, or you will miss it!We have time to spend and no time to waste.” - Charles Franklin

36. “The joy of travel does not lie in reaching the destination, but in the companions met with on the journey, the changing scenery through which the traveller passes, and even the inconveniences that break up the monotony of the ordinary routine life.” - A.R. Calhoon

37. “What would you do if you weren't afraid?” - Sheryl Sandberg

38. “You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you do not try.” - Brigitte Trinkle

39. “Desire to impact lives! Change destinies and make dreams come true.” - Jaachynma N.E. Agu

40. “The observer self, a part of who we really are, is that part of us that is watching both our false self and our True Self. We might say that it even watches us when we watch. It is our Consciousness, it is the core experience of our Child Within. It thus cannot be watched—at least by anything or any being that we know of on this earth. It transcends our five senses, our co-dependent self and all other lower, though necessary parts, of us. Adult children may confuse their observer self with a kind of defense they may have used to avoid their Real Self and all of its feelings. One might call this defense “false observer self” since its awareness is clouded. It is unfocused as it “spaces” or “numbs out.” It denies and distorts our Child Within, and is often judgmental.” - Charles L. Whitfield