June 10, 2024, 2:45 p.m.
In moments of disillusionment, the soul often seeks solace and understanding. It's during these times that the wisdom of great thinkers can illuminate the path toward clarity and renewal. Our curated collection of the top 41 disillusionment quotes harnesses the profound insights of remarkable individuals who have navigated the murky waters of discontent. Whether you're searching for a spark of inspiration or a thought-provoking reflection, these quotes are designed to deepen your contemplation and provide a fresh perspective. Dive in and let these powerful words resonate with your journey.
1. “Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unless laughter could be said to remedy anything.” - Kurt Vonnegut
2. “Innocence ends when one is stripped of the delusion that one likes oneself.” - Joan Didion
3. “Kids think with their brains cracked wide open; becoming an adult, I've decided, is only a slow sewing shut.” - Jodi Picoult
4. “Never touch your idols: the gilding will stick to your fingers."(Il ne faut pas toucher aux idoles: la dorure en reste aux mains.)” - Gustave Flaubert
5. “Scratch any cynic and you will find a disappointed idealist.” - George Carlin
6. “I would look up at the moon and see that it was not the smooth orb we had all believed, but a pitted and scarred world with no air.” - Christopher Pike
7. “When you lose your parents as a child, you are indoctrinated into a club, you re taken into life's severest confidence. You are undeceived.” - Hilary Thayer Hamann
8. “Life is not a song, sweetling.Someday you may learn that, to your sorrow.” - George R.R. Martin
9. “There are too many other inexplicable things around us--horrors, threats, mysteries that draw you in and then inevitably disenchant you. Back to the predictable and humdrum. The prince is never going to come, everybody knows that; and maybe Sleeping Beauty's dead.” - Anne Rice
10. “I'm too old to know everything” - Oscar Wilde
11. “All my misfortunes come of having thought too well of my fellows.” - Jean Jacques Rousseau
12. “One person's trauma is another's loss of innocence.” - Jodi Picoult
13. “I knew nothing but shadows and I thought them to be real.” - Oscar Wilde
14. “If my twelve-year-old self, of whom I had grown rather fond, thinking about him, were to reproach me: 'Why have you grown up such a dull dog, when I gave you such a good start? Why have you spent your time in dusty libraries, catologuing other people's books instead of writing your own? What had become of the Ram, the Bull and the Lion, the example I gave you to emulate? Where above all is the Virgin, with her shining face and curling tresses, whom I entrusted to you'- what should I say?I should have an answer ready. 'Well, it was you who let me down, and I will tell you how. You flew too near to the sun, and you were scorched. This cindery creature is what you made me.'To which he might reply: 'But you have had half a century to get over it! Half a century, half the twentieth century, that glorious epoch, that golden age that I bequeathed to you!''Has the twentieth century,' I should ask, 'done so much better than I have? When you leave this room, which I admit is dull and cheerless, and take the last bus to your home in the past, if you haven't missed it - ask yourself whether you found everything so radiant as you imagined it. Ask yourself whether it has fulfilled your hopes. You were vanquished, Colston, you were vanquished, and so was your century, your precious century that you hoped so much of.” - L.P. Hartley
15. “When you once see something as false which you have accepted as true, as natural, as human, then you can never go back to it.” - J. Krishnamurti
16. “All knowledge hurts.” - Cassandra Clare
17. “There's truths you have to grow into.” - H.G. Wells
18. “Love may precede respect but it cannot survive the loss of it.” - Joe L. Wheeler
19. “How strange when an illusion dies. It's as though you've lost a child.” - Judy Garland
20. “She'd stood by that creed. No softness, because the world wasn't soft; lots of laughter, because if you were in on the joke, the joke couldn't be on you; And no wanting what you couldn't take, because the world never gave.Or so she'd thought.” - Connie Brockway
21. “I was in misery, and misery is the state of every soul overcome by friendship with mortal things and lacerated when they are lost. Then the soul becomes aware of the misery which is its actual condition even before it loses them.” - St. Augustine of Hippo
22. “The search for truth takes you where the evidence leads you, even if, at first, you don't want to go there.” - Bart D. Ehrman
23. “It had been an awful thing to lose Henry the first time, to matrimony, but to discover what a false front he was capable of was another kind of blow, and it had left her almost speechless. Then there was the fury with herself—for she had known what Henry’s love was, and still she had gone back to suffer a little more at his hands.” - Anna Godbersen
24. “...all these things were part of the business of dreams. He had learned not to laugh at the advertisements offering to teach writing, cartooning, engineering, to add inches to the biceps and to develop the bust” - Nathanael West
25. “We dream, we wake on a cold hillside, we pursue the dream again. In the beginning was the dream, and the work of disenchantment never ends.” - Kim Stanley Robinson
26. “In some deep place in her heart, Caroline had kept alive the silly romantic notion that somehow David Henry had once known her as no one else ever could. But it was not true. He had never even glimpsed her.” - Kim Edwards
27. “Those who love their dream of a Christian community more than the Christian community itself become destroyers of that Christian community even though their personal intentions may be ever so honest, earnest, and sacrificial.” - Dietrich Bonhoeffer
28. “From the ruins, lonely and inexplicable as the sphinx, rose the Empire State Building. And just as it had been tradition of mine to climb to the Plaza roof to take leave of the beautiful city extending as far as the eyes could see, so now I went to the roof of that last and most magnificent of towers.Then I understood. Everything was explained. I had discovered the crowning error of the city. Its Pandora's box.Full of vaunting pride, the New Yorker had climbed here, and seen with dismay what he had never suspected. That the city was not the endless sucession of canyons that he had supposed, but that it had limits, fading out into the country on all sides into an expanse of green and blue. That alone was limitless. And with the awful realization that New York was a city after all and not a universe, the whole shining ediface that he had reared in his mind came crashing down.That was the gift of Alfred Smith to the citizens of New York.” - F. Scott Fitzgerald
29. “My hopes were all dead --- struck with a subtle doom, such as, in one night, fell on all the first-born in the land of Egypt. I looked on my cherished wishes, yesterday so blooming and glowing; they lay stark, chill, livid corpses that could never revive. I looked at my love: that feeling which had been my master's --- which he had created; it shivered in my heart, like a suffering child in a cold cradle; sickness and anguish had seized it; it could not seek Mr Rochester's arms --- it could not derive warmth from his breast. Oh, never more could it turn to him; for faith was blighted -- confidence destroyed!” - Charlotte Brontë
30. “It should not be possible for Christians to be disillusioned. We should have no illusions in the first place. Our faith is in Jesus Christ alone.” - Gene Edward Veith Jr.
31. “You are very harsh.''I have seen the world.” - Voltaire
32. “Love is a disease of the youth; most of us go through it. A few are cured, the rest are disabled.” - Martin Foreman
33. “Every day we make the whole world new... Or else grow old.” - John Valentine
34. “We are sorry about the way things turned out. We gave, in the phrasing of our words if not literally in the words themselves, the false impression that these pages might hold some small fragment, some slight fragrance of a greater truth. That there might be something here to be learned. Before we go any further the author of this cartoon wishes to make an apology. Such an impression was deliberately cultivated. It is a ruse. It is a lie. We are every bit as lost and afraid as children abandoned in a wood: every bit as lost as you.” - Anders Nilsen
35. “I lost something magical in the process of growing up – my disillusionment.” - Bauvard
36. “Maybe I had been making a greater monster of him than he really was, or maybe I was still under his influence, for I was certain that he wanted me to believe he was no more than a harmless man who happened to use vampirism to get what he desired. Some remnant of his mesmerism was still upon me. I had never been able to shake the feeling that he was tucked away in a corner of my mind, that he could read my thoughts, know what I was thinking. He had done something to me, but what that was, I had never been able to discover. All I knew was that the feeling had been with me since the morning I woke up and found myself in Venice.” - Melika Dannese Lux
37. “Stories are full of people who find that, in extreme situations, they’re capable of so much more than they imagined they were. Real life is full of people who find that they’re capable of so much less.” - Amethyst Marie
38. “In freedom you form in utter disgrace,the bars of my prison this night.While you drift on currents of seraphim heights,it is I who deserve to take flight.” - Craig Froman
39. “In all the mad incongruity, the turgid stultiloquy of life, I felt, at least, securely anchored to myself. Whatever the vacillations of other people, I thought myself terrifically constant. But now, here I am, dragging a frayed line, and my anchor gone.” - John Steinbeck
40. “No one gives up on something until it turns on them, whether or not that thing is real or unreal.” - Thomas Ligotti
41. “After you've seen behind the facade of a stage set you can't take the play seriously any more. You can't go backwards and regain your ignorance; you have to move forward.” - Zeena Schreck