“You can't love someone if you don't really know them. And if you can't love them at their darkest moments...you just can't love them, period”
“You can't love someone just by looking at them. That is lust. Not saying love can't come fast, but it doesn't come first.”
“You don't love people at their best, sweetheart. You just love them because you can't help it.”
“you can't deny they ever happened. You can't deny you ever loved them, love them still, even if loving them causes you pain”
“You can't hate someone until you know what it might be like to love them.”
“But you can't marry someone to fix him, even if you love them.”