“There is this weird thing that happens, when you stop worrying so much about what other people think of you...you suddenly start seeing what you think of you.”
“You’re so worried about what other people think of you – other people do not think of you!”
“Worry less about what other people think about you, and more about what you think about them.”
“It is not so much what happens to you as how you think about what happens.”
“Another of the hard things about being in a war, grandchildren, is that although there are times of quiet when the fighting has stopped, you know you will soon be fighting again. Those quiet times give you the chance to think about what has happened. Some of it you would rather not think about, as you remember the pain and the sorrow. You also have time to worry about what will happen when you go into battle again.”
“You must stop worrying about why things happen and wonder what they mean when they do.”