“Life, Enza decided, is not about what you get, but what is taken from you. It's in the things we lose that we discover what we most treasure.”
“Novels tell us the most truth about life: what it is, how we live it, what it might be for, how we enjoy and value it, and how we lose it.”
“Maybe when we recognize the trivial for what it is, we can concentrate on what we love most, what we most treasure.”
“If we couldn't get strong from what we lose, and what we miss, and what we want and can't have, then we couldn't ever get strong enough.”
“Life is rarely about what happened; it's mostly about what we think happened.”
“Sometimes the things we dream about are merely the heart's way of protecting us from what we really want, and what we're really afraid to lose.”