“You really need to get over your martyr complex. One of these days it’s going to get you killed.”

“There are two decisions you need to make after you have accepted Jesus into your life. One: You need to make the decision to get over your past. You will not grow unless you make a conscious decision to get over your past. Two: Once you have made that decision, you need to trust God to help you get over your past...You didn’t just automatically become a Christian, did you? You weren’t made a Christian by just going to church. Just like you are not made a car by sitting in a garage all day! You have to make a decision.”

“But you should go, if that’s what you need to do to get over it. You should go and cry your heart out.”

“You don’t need to drink to get over your feelings. Deal with your feelings that’s how you get over them,”

“Just go out there and get your heart broken in, so it'll be ready when you really need it.”

“Love makes you stupid. Love makes you weak. Love will kill you all one day, and it’s going to kill you today.”