“It was easy, terribly easy, to become with time a middle-aged spinster with a sharp tongue. She would have to guard against this.”
“she got a reputation for an easy smile and a sharp tongue, and using one to balance the other, she seemed friendly but distant”
“Listen sharp, think deep, and guard your tongue- Tam al'Thor”
“But Mimi- her tenderness didn't have an easy visibility. You wondered what it would be, and after what terrible manifestations it would appear.”
“I warned myself against the danger of compassion in this case. How easy it would be to imagine the traumas of childhood that might have deformed her into the moral monster she had become, and then to convince myself that those traumas could be balanced - and their effects reversed - by sufficient acts of kindness.”
“It is not easy to be crafty and winsome at the same time, and few accomplish it after the age of six.”