“Nothing is fun until you're good at it.”

“What Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you're good at it.”

“Every day that you don't practice is a day you're getting worse.”

“The truth is I'm not good at enjoying life.”

“Western parents worry a lot about their children's self-esteem. But as a parent, one of the worst things you can do for your child's self-esteem is to let them give up. On the flip side, there's nothing better for building confidence than learning you can do something you thought you couldn't.”

“Western parents try to respect their children’s individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions, supporting their choices, and providing positive reinforcement and a nurturing environment. By contrast, the Chinese believe that the best way to protect their children is by preparing them for the future, letting them see what they’re capable of, and arming them with skills, work habits, and inner confidence that no one can ever take away.”

“All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. The Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that.”