“No one starts out with the answers. You figure them out as you go and you learn from the people who figured them out before you.”
“Before you find out who you are, you have to figure out who you aren't..”
“you may never remember the way you used to be with them, I have no doubt that you'll figure out a way that works with them one day. And when you do, when you figure everything out and decide with no regrets who you want to be, if you still want me, I'll be right here waiting for you.”
“Be kind. It's worthwhile to make an effort to learn about other people and figure out what you might have in common with them.”
“Don't try to figure out what other people want to hear from you; figure out what you have to say.”
“You find out who you are by figuring out who and what you're not”