“Is it easy? Usually not. But you don't forgive people for their benefit. You do it for your benefit.”
“It’s easy K. on one side of the page you got your costs and on the other side your benefits. All you do is mark which one is which, then you weigh one side against the other and you get your decision just like that. that’s all you ever have to do. i live by this.”"But what if you don’t know the difference between a benefit and a cost? what if you’ve never been very good at telling a plus from a minus?”
“If you don't like a place, maybe you don't know enough about it... Give a culture the benefit of your open mind.”
“Strong leaders encourage you to do things for your own benefit, not just theirs.”
“Forgiveness is almost a selfish act because of its immense benefits to the one who forgives.”
“you give everyone the benefit of the doubt. they don't always deserve it. ”