“What you didn't have, you didn't have.”
“If you have to ask what it symbolizes, it didn't.”
“...loving music didn't have to mean wanting the same song all the time, or believing it perfect, and that what you loved didn't have to add up, let alone define you.”
“If you didn't have a choice, you have to make a choice. If you didn't have options, you made some. You couldn't just let the world happen to you.”
“If you didn't have someone to hate, you wouldn't know what to do with yourself, would you?”
“Being a BONUSmom is learning about strengths you didn't know you had, and dealing with fears you didn't know existed and having patience that you didn't know that you possessed”