“But what was family? Surely more than genes, eye color, flesh. Family was story: truth and struggle and retribution. Family was time. If he had learned anything it was the family was not so much what you were given as what you were able to maintain.”
“Sometimes family is just not what you were born into.”
“They would always be a family, but if she'd learned anything in the past few weeks it was that a family wasn't a static thing. There were always changes going on. Like with continents, sometimes the changes were invisible and underground, and sometimes they were explosive and deadly. The trick was to keep your balance. You couldn't control the direction of your family any more than you could stop the continental shelf from breaking apart. All you could do was hold on for the ride.”
“What wars really destroyed were families.”
“In a family, what isn't spoken is what you listen for. But the noise of a family is to drown it out.”
“It is what a man does for strangers that counts more than what he does for his family.”