“Ask yourself, does this person make me feel good about myself? Do I feel safe, strong and free with this person? Those are the questions you need to ask....You have to be strong to truly be open.”
“You don't need to take a persons advice to make him feel good, just ask him for it.”
“I feel strongly that it is the selfish person who needs to change, not the selfless person. (Zhang)”
“I do not ask the wounded person how he feels, I myself become the wounded person.”
“The culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn't work, don't buy it”
“A truly strong person does not need the approval of others any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep.”