“If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself.”

“No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change”

“You never lose by loving, you lose by holding back.”

“You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.”

“When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship”

“The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.”

“Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.”