“To return to love, to get the love we always wanted but never had, to have the love we want but are not prepared to give, we seek romantic relationships. We believe these relationships, more than any other, will rescue and redeem us. True love does have the power to redeem but only if we are ready for redemption. Love saves us only if we want to be saved.”
“It is in the thirties that we want friends. In the forties we know they won't save us any more than love did.”
“True love of others, according to Jesus, flows out of a love of God. The service of our lives flow out of the loving relationship we have with God. Too often we desire our service to create a loving relationship with God. Yet God does not seek after us because of any good deeds we have done.”
“love is the only thing we have to save us”
“The moment we begin to seek love, love begins to seek us. And to save us.”
“suffering occurs when we want other people to love us in the way we want to be loved.”