“But she needs me more than she needs him and I guess being needed is almost as good as being loved. Maybe better.”
“I guess being needed is almost as good as being loved. Maybe better.”
“My arm was not the one she needed, but the arm of someone else. My warmth was not what she needed, but the warmth of someone else. I felt almost guilty being me.”
“Then she wished, more rationally, that she could love him without needing him. Need gave him power without his trying; need was the choicelessness she often felt around him.”
“Women would be better off when they no longer needed men more than they needed their own independent identities...How long a time it took me after my divorce to understand that being alone is not the same as being lonely.”
“You need me, Kane. Maybe even more than I need you.”