“If you can't control your peanut butter, you can't expect to control your life.”
“You can spread jelly on the peanut butter but you can't spread peanut butter on the jelly.”
“You can't gain control of your children by losing control of yourself”
“What other people think of you is none of your business," she says. "You can't change it, you can't control it. The only thing you can control is your reaction to it.”
“That's why I write, because life never works except in retrospect. You can't control life, at least you can control your version.”
“Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what the reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character.”