“it's clear that before we can be a father and son again, we have to treat each other like men first.”

“The world of man can end in a second, the second we start treating each other like animals.”

“How could you love us being together?" he asked me "We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?" So I told him "I know that we're not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that's us. That's what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it's no good, it's what we have! It's us.”

“We are basically all one. We are one being, one consciousness, one whole. We are all connected to each other. We are all parts of the same whole. How we treat others are how we treat ourselves. If we treat others badly, we are really treating ourselves badly. If we hate others, we are really hating ourselves. If we love others, we are basically loving ourselves.”

“I don't want us to be together because either of us is afraid. We have to be whole before we can share what we are with each other”

“The big truth for men is that often we have to leave home in the first half of life before we can return home at a later stage and find our soul there.”