“Criticism is no threat to your self-esteem or identity, but rather informs you.”
“Protestantism developed its sense of identity primarily in response to external threats and criticisms rather than as a result of shared beliefs. In one sense, the idea of "Protestantism" can be seen as the creation of its opponents rather than of its supporters.”
“To listen to critics, pro or con, and take their words to heart is to subcontract your self-esteem to strangers. (from Workbook)”
“Protect your self-esteem and self-confidence - it is your responsibility!”
“Whatever you lay your hands on, self-esteem is visible.”
“Feed your self-esteem; not your ego!”