“He remembers which sisterI like least and askshow she is doing.(lines 9-11 of the poem 'Divorce')”
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Quote Analysis
In these lines from the poem "Divorce" by Carrie Etter, the speaker reflects on the actions of their former partner. The mention of the partner remembering which sister the speaker likes least and inquiring about her well-being highlights a certain level of insensitivity or lack of concern on the part of the partner. This detail adds to the overall portrayal of the partner as someone who may not fully understand or appreciate the speaker's feelings, further emphasizing the emotional impact of the divorce.
Modern Relevance of the Poem "Divorce" by Carrie Etter
In today's world, the eternal complexities of human relationships remain just as relevant as ever. The lines "He remembers which sister / I like least and asks / how she is doing" from Carrie Etter's poem "Divorce" speak to the enduring nature of family dynamics and the intricate webs that connect us to our loved ones. This snippet captures the nuanced understanding of personal preferences and past grievances that can shape our interactions, reminding us that even in the midst of a divorce, familial ties and interpersonal connections continue to influence our lives.
Example of Usage
In the poem "Divorce" by Carrie Etter, the speaker reflects on the intricate dynamics of family relationships, highlighting the dynamics between siblings and the lasting impact of past hurts. Line 9-11, "He remembers which sisterI like least and askshow she is doing," captures a moment of subtle manipulation and emotional intelligence within the context of a fractured family.
Reflection Questions:
In these lines from the poem "Divorce" by Carrie Etter, the speaker recalls a specific detail about their brother-in-law remembering the sister they like least. This detail can provoke reflection and discussion. Here are some questions to consider:
- How does the speaker's memory of their brother-in-law remembering their least favorite sister make you feel?
- What does this reveal about the relationships within the family?
- How does this detail add to your understanding of the speaker's experiences and emotions in the poem?
- Do you think remembering such details about family members reflects a deeper awareness of familial dynamics or a more superficial observation?
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