“Pain made you strong. Loss made you powerful.”
“She realised with an intense, wonderful rush that love didn't make you weak. It made you vulnerable, but it also made you strong.”
“All four of us were young and undaunted and our smiles were so strong that it made me smile even then on the couch, with a kind of loss.”
“They said love made you strong, but in Louise's opinion it made you weak. It corkscrewed into your heart and you couldn't get it out again, not without ripping your heart to pieces.”
“Vergere taught me to embrace my pain by surrendering to it. I made that pain a part of me--something I would never fight or deny. You have to do the same thing with your fear, Uncle Luke. Then it will have no power over you." - Jacen”
“You win some, you lose some, and your losses are never made up to you. She will simply have to do without; like it or not, she must face her losses and her helplessness to undo them.”