“Small wins are a steady application of a small advantage.”
“I think I'm smart, and I know I was a good mom. But there wasn't a lot I could point to and say, that's why I'm special.”
“Change might not be fast and it isn't always easy. But with time and effort, almost any habit can be reshaped.”
“...hiding what you know is sometimes as important as knowing it...”
“There's a natural instinct embedded in friendship, a sympathy that makes us willing to fight for someone we like when they are treated unjustly.”
“Bureaucrats and politicians, rather than making decisions, were responding to cues with automatic routines in order to get rewards such as promotions or reelection.”
“The problem is that your brain can't tell the difference between bad and good habits, and so if you have a bad one, it's always lurking there, waiting for the right cues and rewards.”