“...in the lower self, love is neediness, “chemistry” or infatuation, possession, strong admiration, or even worship—in short, traditional romantic love. Many people who grew up in troubled homes and who experienced a stifling of their Child Within become stuck at these lower levels or ways of experiencing love.”
“People who have experienced nothing love to tell stories while people who have experienced a great deal suddenly have no stories to tell at all.”
“Love is an emotion experienced by the many and enjoyed by the few.”
“Love in the form of longing and deprivation lowers the self regard.”
“Chemistry is a funny thing, miss. Sometimes those who are experiencing it aren't always aware they are.”
“Anyone who has ever experienced love knows that you can have too much or too little. You can have love that parches, love that defeats. You can have love measured out in the wrong proportions. It's like your sunlight and water - the wrong kind of love is just as likely to stifle hope as it is to nourish it.”