“Simos said, “Grief work must be shared. In sharing, however, there must be no impatience, censure or boredom with the repetition, because repetition is necessary for catharsis and internalization and eventual unconscious acceptance of the reality of the loss. The bereaved are sensitive to the feelings of others and will not only refrain from revealing feelings to those they consider unequal to the burden of sharing the grief but may even try to comfort the helpers.” (97)”

Charles L. Whitfield

Charles L. Whitfield - “Simos said, “Grief work must be...” 1

Similar quotes

“My grief was cold. It was nothing to share. It was nothing to speak about, nothing to feel.”

Alice Hoffman
Read more

“Grief shared was grief lessened.”

Karen Marie Moning
Read more

“Grief can't be shared. Everyone carries it alone, his own burden, his own way.”

Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Read more

“Whatever he goes through, I feel. Whatever I go through, he feels. It’s what happens when two people become one: they no longer only share love. They also share all of the pain, heartache, sorrow, and grief.”

Colleen Hoover
Read more

“We must share! Sharing IS caring. Share everything: every idea, every resource, every story, every gift, every worry and every burden. Share yourself.”

Bryant McGill
Read more