“It's your way of fighting. You refuse to engage and then you can't lose.”

“It's so easy to for tragedy to defeat you. It's seductive in the way that I heard freezing to death is. Being consumed by grief is in many ways much more comfortable than battling your way out of it - especially when you realize that no matter how hard you fight you can't reverse the situation you're grieving over. But it's so important to engage in the battle anyway. It's really the only way to stay alive.”

“It's exciting. But you can't keep fighting the way things are forever.”

“Lose your temper and you lose the fight.”

“You can't just plan a moment when things get back on track, just as you can't plan the moment you lose your way in the first place.”

“It's just so quiet out here. Not like the quiet in the house. This is different. This is a quiet you can‟t fight, you can't change. This silence is bigger than you and me, we don‟t cause it. It's like Gods refusal to speak.”