“All too often, "falling in love" with the fantasy of romantic love becomes the aphrodisiac, rather than learning to love the real person and in real conditions of existence.”
“In real love, you want the other person's good. In romantic love, you want the other person.”
“I’d rather fall in molten lava than fall in love. But I suppose that’s just the romantic me.”
“Love'--romantic love, anyway--was a fantasy people indulged in because otherwise, life was just too boring to tolerate.”
“I rather take the risk of trying to find real love than loving someone I know that is guaranteed”
“Real love ain't no fantasy - it's messy, and sometimes it's downright hard. And with real love there's no guarantee you'll never get hurt. You can't love somebody with one foot out of the door. If you love her, its got to be all the way, no matter what happens. That's real love - not this straddling the fence thing you've got going on.”