“People fall so in love with their pain, they can’t leave it behind. The same as the stories they tell. We trap ourselves.”
“We can’t always tell the whole story about ourselves.”
“A love story is not the same as a romance novel. A romance novel is the story of two people falling in love against their will. This is a story of two people who leave each other against their will. It starts to end the minute they meet.”
“In the stories we tell ourselves, we tell ourselves.”
“People don't know. We don't know ourselves so we tell ourselves what we really know is other people. We could say the depth of pain we feel for the lovers who've left us is because we knew them so well.”
“We consciously decide whether to consider people; we fall in love despite ourselves; we entirely fail to fall in love with people who fall in love with us. It is a mightily complicated business.”