“The tantrums of cloth-headed celluloid idols are deemed fit for grown-up conversation, while silence settles over such a truly important matter as food.”
“...if a child waited to speak until all the grown-ups settled down and gave her some room to say her piece, the most important things would never get said.”
“Sighs and silences and avoided conversations are just as important as the things you do talk about.”
“The scholar who cherishes the love of comfort is not fit to be deemed a scholar.”
“I am grown up. That's why I cooked all this food!”
“Behind my carefully buttoned collar is my nakedness, the struggle to find clean clothes, food, meaning, and money. Behind sex is rage, behind anger is love, behind this moment is silence, years of silence.”