“who you are is who you are when you are alone.”
“Who are you when you're alone? When no one is watching? What's left then?”
“[...]alone you stood before God when he called you; alone you had to answer that call; alone you had to struggle and pray; and alone you will die and give an account to God. If you refuse to be alone you are rejecting Christ's call to you, and you can have no part in the community of those who are called.”
“Grief is what tells you who you are alone.”
“When you live alone, you can be sure that the person who squeezed the toothpaste tube in the middle wasn't committing a hostile act.”
“You can forget who you are if you're alone too much.”