“The challenge of abating one with a genuine ego problem is to not try to put him down. Any and all antagonization, in his mind, is merely compensated for by his own descriptions: his feelings of persecution by the envious and his ideals of worth. Arguably, the genuine ego is more of a circumstantial defense mechanism rather than a steady arrogance in need of starvation.”
“A discussion should be a genuine attempt to explore a subject rather than a battle between competing egos.”
“There is nothing more potentially hostile than the indigenous ego interpreting the laws of his conqueror upon his own people”
“Nobody who's really using his ego, his real ego, has any time for any goddam hobbies”
“Rather than adjust his expectations in the face of disappointment, he (Jefferson) tended to bury them deeper inside himself and regard the disjunction between his ideals and the worldly imperfections as the world's problems rather than his own.”
“A man's alter ego is nothing more than his favorite image of himself.”