“Instead of wondering WHY this is happening to you, consider why this is happening to YOU.”
“You must stop worrying about why things happen and wonder what they mean when they do.”
“stop asking yourself 'why has this happened' and instead ask 'how can i recover?”
“That is all that happened. Why did you hear something else?”
“But you can't make people listen. They have to come round in their own time, wondering what happened and why the world blew up around them. It can't last.”
“Why are you doing this to yourself? When something bad happens, why do you have to pick at it until it bleeds all over again?”