“The way to change others' minds is with affection, and not anger.”

“Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.”

“There is nothing like wounded affection for giving poignancy to anger.”

“You cannot change the past. All you can do is change the way you allow the past to affect your present and future.”

“Anger is often a big problem for people who grew up in families where the overt expression of anger was an everyday occurrence. They have too much opportunity to practice anger and not enough sense of the other possibilities. Rage becomes, for them, the habitual response of the mind to unpleasant situations. ... When people begin to see that anger, like any other mind energy, is just a transient phenomenon and therefore workable, they are very relieved [p. 83].”

“The way we dress affects the way we think.the way we feel.the way we act.& the way others reactto us.”