“arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.”

“Always have something to say. The man who has something to say and who is known never to speak unless he has, is sure to be listened to.”

“The person who seeks all their applause from outside has their happiness in another's keeping.”

“If You Have A Lemon, Make A LemonadeThat is what a great educator does. But the fool does the exact opposite. If he findsthat life has handed him a lemon, he gives up and says: "I'm beaten. It is fate. I haven'tgot a chance." Then he proceeds to rail against the world and indulge in an orgy of selfpity.But when the wise man is handed a lemon, he says: "What lesson can I learn fromthis misfortune? How can I improve my situation? How can I turn this lemon into alemonade?”

“Flattery is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself.”

“Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment.”

“you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry”