“People are what they can do and what they can't help.”
“Sandry: "There has to be something we can do." Lark: "We're mages. We do what we can, but some problems are too big to fix." Sandry: "Then I wish I weren't a mage. What good is magic, if you can't use it to help people.”
“You can't help what you feel, but you can help how you behave”
“You can't help whom you love, Lady. Nor can you know what it's liable to cause you to do.”
“The biggest difference between people who possess confidence and those who lack it is their focus: confident people focus on what they can and will do, and people lacking confidence focus on what they can't, or might not be able, to do.”
“Encourage them to do what they can, and help them do what they cannot.”