“Gay Sex Three, Straight Sex Nil”
“Gay sex, one. Straight sex, zero”
“Straight people get married so that they can have sex. Gay men have sex so that they can get friends. ”
“It's like a gay man being married to a straight woman. No matter how much he loves her, it's a sacrifice every moment they're together. The sex is secondary to the sacrifice.”
“...insofar as an American thinks that the sex he or she is having is an intimate, private thing constructed within a space governed by personal consent, she or he is having straight sex, straight sex authorized by national culture; she or he is practicing national heterosexuality...”
“Gay men should not adopt the sophomoric model of heterosexual dating; gay men should always have sex first.”