“If you have to keep a secret it's because you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.”

“If you have to keep something secret it's because you shouldn't be doing it in the first place!”

“If you have something that you don't want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.”

“It's not fun to keep secrets, but sometimes you have to do it to protect yourself. And to protect people around you. - Meredith, p112”

“It's wrong," he says. "It doesn't matter if your parents are in a better place, they aren't here with you, and that's wrong, Tris. It shouldn't have happened. It shouldn't have happened to you. And anyone who tells you it's okay is a liar.”

“I don’t need friends. All they do is eat your food, drink your beer, then spew your secrets the first time you do something that displeases them. No offense, but when you have as many enemies as I do, you keep your secrets under lock and key. (Solin)”