“The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation — or a relationship.”

“A perfectly tuned conversation is a vision of sanity--a ratification of one's way of being human and one's way in the world.”

“Smashing heads does not open minds.”

“We all know we are unique individuals, but we tend to see others as representatives of groups.”

“Life is full of surprises, but the biggest one of all is learning what it takes to handle them.”

“Evaluating the benefits and drawbacks of any relationship is your responsibility. You do not have to passively accept what is brought to you. You can choose.”

“You don't have to strive to be right, because you of faith are made right.”