“It begins to dawn on her that she is lackadaisical about other people. They are tremendously important to her for a time and then they are not. She begins to see her life in sections, as separate pockets of time and affiliation.”

“Much of what she found charming and refreshing about him at the outset of their relationship now bugged the hell out of her.”

“Joanna has an unmanageable lump in her throat and wonders why it's always the happy memories that make her cry.”

“She thought she would do something with them someday, although she could not have said what and in fact she never did.”

“Did she really remember that day so clearly or was she making it up as she went along?”

“It is time to venture out of the comforting land of either/or opposites and travel into the uncertain territory of both/and.”

“I want to hold my life up alongside hers in order to, as she wrote, reach a point where i begin to see me-and her-in a more understandable light.”