“Identity is not inherent. It is shaped by circumstance and sensitivity and resistance to self-pity.”
“To a sensitive being, pity is not seldom pain.”
“Most urgently, women's identity must be premised upon our "beauty" so that we will remain vulnerable to outside approval, carrying the vital sensitive organ of self-esteem exposed to the air.”
“Suffering shapes the life force, sometimes into anger, sometimes into blame and self-pity. Eventually it may show us the wisdom of embracing and loving life.”
“I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.”
“Resistance is not a peripheral opponent. Resistance arises from within. It is self-generated and self-perpetuated. resistance is the enemy within.”