“If you can't forgive yourself, how can you expect me to?”
“How can you expect to write if you can't cry....Ling”
“Really now: If you can't get me my newspaper on time, how can you expect me to refrain from killing people?”
“And if a friend does you wrong, then say: "I forgive you what you have done to me; that you have done it to YOURSELF, however--how could I forgive that!”
“Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Be true to yourself. How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others will treat you.”
“If you expect honesty, be honest. If you expect forgiveness, forgive. If you expect a whole person, you have to be a whole person.”