“[R]eality and real people are too subtle and complicated for anybody's typewriter, even Tolstoy's, even yours, even mine.”
“It's such a waste to be subtle and vicious with people who don't even know that you're being subtle and vicious”
“You can’t ever know the real anybody unless you’re friends with them. And sometimes not even then.”
“Eventually, it wasn't even your dad I wanted, just anybody. Anybody at all.”
“Be extremely subtle even to the point of formlessness. Be extremely mysterious even to the point of soundlessness. Thereby you can be the director of the opponent's fate.”
“I used to care about how other people thought I led my life. But lately I've realized that most people are too preoccupied with their own lives to give anybody else even the scantiest of thoughts.”