“A great friendship was like a great work of art, he thought. It took time and attention, and a spark of something that was impossible to describe. It was a happy, lucky accident, finding some kindred part of yourself in a total stranger.”

“He HAD seen the world. It had been scary at times, but also exhilarating. Who could have imagined it would be such a complicated, interesting place?...When you saw different parts of the world, you saw different parts of yourself. And when you stayed home, where it was safe, those parts of yourself also stayed hidden. ”

“The most important things in a friendship didn't have to be said out loud.”

“That was the very heart of friendship...your willingness to help each other in a jam, to take a friend's problems as your very own.”

“It's strange, isn't it? One small bit of information - a private relationship, something that happened a long time ago - and the whole story seems different.”

“This was different: the feeling of being chosen. Out of everybody in the world...this boy had picked him as the one he liked best of all.”

“There is a difference between giving into something and accepting it.”