“People grow, but they don't change.”
“If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living.”
“If you realize that you're the problem, then you can change yourself, learn something and grow wiser. Don't blame other people for your problems.”
“People don't get to change things. Things change people once in a while, but people don't change things.”
“So how come people fall out of love, do you think?I don't know. It's true that people change. Or people don't change when you hoped they might. Or they find somebody else they like better. Or people just grow apart, they lose interest in each other's lives. Maybe they realise they made a mistake. There are lots of reasons.”