“It is not we as individuals, then, who must bend uncomfortably around the institution of marriage; rather, it is the institution of marriage that has to bend uncomfortably around us.”
“Marriage is a wonderful institution...but who wants to live in an institution?”
“Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who would want to live in an institution?”
“Marriage is a fine institution, but I'm not ready for an institution.”
“The thing about gay marriage is simply that it's not gay. It's marriage. If you are uncomfortable with marriage, you can not outlaw marriage. And, shocking, even if homosexuality makes someone uncomfortable, one can not outlaw identifying as or practicing homosexuality. So seeing as both homosexuality and marriage are legal, their being combined should be no big deal.”
“It may be that same-sex couples will save the institution of marriage.”