“The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together.”
Erma Bombeck’s vivid description of family life captures the chaotic yet loving dynamics that many can relate to. Here are some examples of how this quote can be used in different contexts:
In a family reunion speech:
“As Erma Bombeck so beautifully put it, ‘The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life... loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together.’ This is exactly what I see around me today — a wonderful, imperfect group united by love.”
In a personal diary or blog post:
“Reading Erma Bombeck’s words made me smile, because it perfectly sums up my own experience: ‘sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts... locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant.’ Family life is messy, but it’s ours.”
As a caption for a family photo on social media:
“Some families are perfect; ours is perfectly imperfect. Erma Bombeck nailed it: ‘a strange little band of characters trudging through life,’ and I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
In a therapy or counseling setting:
“Erma Bombeck’s quote reminds us that family relationships involve complexity — both conflict and care — as we ‘inflict pain and kiss to heal it in the same instant.’ Understanding this duality is key to healing and connection.”
In a book or article about family dynamics:
“Erma Bombeck captures the essence of family with humor and truth: ‘sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts... trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together.’ This complexity defines the human experience of family across cultures.”
“All of us have moments in out lives that test our courage. Taking children into a house with a white carpet is one of them. ”
“It was a bitter moment for us. We weren't two mature parents. We were just two kids playing grown-up. We still needed Mommy and Daddy's permission, blessings, and money to survive.”
“Sometimes I can't figure designers out. It's as if they flunked human anatomy.”
“Seize the moment. Remember all those women on the 'Titanic' who waved off the dessert cart.”
“It's frightening to wake up one morning and discover that while you were asleep you went out of style.”
“Cleanliness is not next to godliness. It isn't even in the same neighborhood. No one has ever gotten a religious experience out of removing burned-on cheese from the grill of the toaster oven.”